would-a, should-a, could-a

I seldom like to play the game of would-a, should-a, could-a. It is like playing with Ping Golf and slicing wrong. The older I get the fewer would-a, should-a, could-a there are.

Most become minor. However, someitmes one just sits in your mind. These often become the big regrets in life. I would-a, should-a, could-a done this. The real question is would you have. I mean I used to think about why did I not get this job. Now I really do not care. It was big at the time.

But what about the big ones. The ones that would change your life. Either for good or ill. Like, why would have happened if you said hi to that blonde and asked her out. What if you stayed with your high school sweetheart. would-a, should-a, could-a is always tough game.

Do you go back and try to change. However, there is no true going back.